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Book Review and Reflection of Legacy: A Black Physician Reckons with Racism in Medicine by Uché Blackstock, MD

Reading Time: 4 minutes

Year of publication: 2025

Genre: Autobiography

Country: United States

Introduction

Legacy by Dr Uché Blackstock is a heartfelt and courageous memoir that explores her life, family, and community while highlighting the ongoing health inequities that disproportionately affect Black communities.

She pays loving homage to her mother, “the original Dr Blackstock,” and writes about her with so much tenderness, admiration, and appreciation. Her mother worked as a doctor, caring for her community, and passed the baton to her daughters, who also became doctors.

As an African woman living in England and now Scotland, I had many moments of recognition while reading this. I am often in spaces where I am the only Black woman. One particular light-bulb moment came when Dr Blackstock described:

“I often was the only Black person in the room. In such situations, I felt as if I were under a microscope, always hyperaware of how I spoke, the words I used, the way I dressed. I found my body would stiffen up as I walked into a patient’s room. I’d stand up straight, trying to project confidence, to prove myself. I didn’t know the term for what I was doing, but now I can see that it was what is known as ‘stereotype threat’—a psychological phenomenon in which an individual feels at risk of confirming a negative stereotype about a group they identify” (p. 101 – Kindle Edition).

Just how many of us do this without even realising it, and just how stressful it is on the psyche and the body to live and present oneself in this way?


Book Summary

This book is essential reading for anyone seeking to understand (or deepen their knowledge of) the health disparities that communities of colour, particularly Black communities, face in the United States. I would argue, however, that Black communities universally experience the issues identified in this book. Dr Blackstock does not shy away from the brutal truths: the disregard, the lack of care, and the heartbreaking maternal mortality rates among Black women. She also humanises every person she writes about in this book, and this is crucial: recognising the fear behind people’s eyes, instantly knowing where it stems from, and acting accordingly to support them.

In addition to her lived experience, those of people around her and those she came to care for in her community, Dr Blackstock also incorporated research into her book, including key historical facts that everyone should know – exposing how deeply rooted many preconceptions about Black people, and Black women in particular, are. She also highlights the often-erased contributions of Black people to medical advancements. For instance, I did not know about the HeLa cells until reading this. Dr Blackstock traces the structural and systemic issues that affect health: racism, exclusion, inequity in medical training, and the institutional culture of academic medicine.


Key Themes

1. Interlocking Systems of Oppression

Dr Blackstock goes deeper than surface-level explanations. She uncovers layers of interlocking systems that produce and reproduce health inequities.

She reflects on how people often have no choice but to use the ER as their primary source of care, where medical insurance is out of reach:

“I came to see that the woman who couldn’t take time off work to get her blood pressure medication wasn’t only suffering from high blood pressure, she was suffering from lack of workplace protections.
The young man who lost his life to gun violence clearly needed better educational and employment opportunities. The elderly gentleman who had his diabetes medication stolen at the homeless shelter would need safe, permanent housing before his health could ever begin to improve in meaningful ways.” (p. 111, Kindle Edition)

Here, she shows that health outcomes are not simply medical; they are social, political, and economic.

2. Medical Racism and Academic Medicine

She writes openly about her experiences in academic medicine, including being thwarted and eventually pushed out for advocating for true diversity and health equity. These sections are heartbreaking, especially her reflections on supporting Black students navigating hostile, racist, and exclusionary environments. I thought, though, that this was a great show of building one’s own table instead of waiting for a place at another ‘s table. She went on to create her own organisation to do the work she wanted to do correctly.


Recommendation

As a Black African woman living in the UK at the time of writing this review, so much of this book felt familiar. I recognised the burden of representation, the isolation, the resilience, and the ways racism shapes everyday encounters, especially in professional spaces.

Legacy is an essential read.


For Black women, it offers recognition, truth, and healing.
For everyone else, it offers education, accountability, and a clear look at the systems that must change.

If you work in health, community care, academia, or social justice, this book should be on your reading list.

About the Author

Dr Uché Blackstock is a physician, educator, and founder of Advancing Health Equity, an organisation dedicated to dismantling racism in healthcare. Her work focuses on reproductive justice, health equity, and advocating for communities most impacted by structural racism. Read more about her, her work and order her book HERE.

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Review and Reflection of Letter to My Daughter by Dr. Maya Angelou

Reading Time: 2 minutes

Genre: Semi-autobiographical
Year of Publication: 2008
Country: United States
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Introduction

Letter to My Daughter was an absolutely beautiful read. I actually bought it together with Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, as I thought it was a book about raising girl children – I do not usually read book blurbs before getting into them. However, I quickly realised that the book was not at all about raising girls; it was more for me, as if Maya Angelou were speaking directly to me.

In her preface, Maya explains that although she never had a biological daughter, she wrote this book for all the women she considered her daughters. She listed a few names, but the book felt like she was writing to me, and to so many other women out there like me.

Book Summary

Maya Angelou is best known for her powerful autobiographical works, and Letter to My Daughter is part of that legacy. This collection of 28 short essays and life stories captures her reflections on life, womanhood, and the wisdom she gathered from her incredible journey, from a young girl learning to love her “recalcitrant teenage body” to a woman who travelled the world as an artist and mother.

Through vivid storytelling, she touches on teenage pregnancy, domestic violence, motherhood, and even moments of humour, like her unforgettable story of “a mouthful of cockroaches.” But above all, Maya Angelou centres dignity, respect and people.

What moved me most, though, was how she wrote about her mother, gingerly, lovingly, and with such deep appreciation. I loved reading about how her mother affirmed, rescued, and protected her. This was crucial as Maya did not have an easy start to life.

Reading this book felt like being wrapped in Maya’s warmth, wisdom, and resilience. Her words carry the weight of experience yet are tender, poetic, and encouraging. She reminds us that life’s lessons, no matter how painful, can become our greatest sources of strength.

Recommendations

Everyone should read this book. It’s the kind that makes you grateful to be alive, and even more eager to pick up the rest of her works. Letter to My Daughter is an ode to the daughters Maya never had, including me and you.

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Book Review and Reflection: Left to Tell by Immaculée Ilibagiza

Reading Time: 3 minutes
Left to Tell by Immaculée Ilibagiza - Book Review on Survivor Narratives and Faith
Cover of Left to Tell by Immaculée Ilibagiza – A memoir of survival, faith, and forgiveness during the Rwandan Genocide.

Book Published: 2006
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Introduction

I have always had a keen interest in learning about the Rwandan Genocide, stemming from my undergraduate studies in law. The 1994 Rwandan Genocide, where nearly one million Tutsis were slaughtered in just 100 days, is a significant aspect of Rwanda’s history. My dissertation for my LLB honours degree focused on the human rights of women and children during this tragic time.

However, most of my early research was based on official documents and academic papers. As my interest deepened, I grew a strong desire to learn about people’s lived experiences of the Genocide. Left to Tell by Immaculée Ilibagiza was the first book I encountered in my search for personal narratives from the genocide, and it offered a powerful, unforgettable perspective.

Book Summary

Left to Tell is divided into four full chapters. It begins with Immaculée’s narration of a happy, blossoming childhood. She lived with her loving family, attended school, and dreamed of a successful academic and professional career. She was an intelligent child who consistently achieved excellent grades.

Growing up, Immaculée did not even know which tribe she belonged to; it only became an issue at school when a teacher conducted a tribal roll call, separating Hutus and Tutsis. Interestingly, she noted that it was impossible to distinguish Hutus and Tutsis physically; they spoke the same language and lived side by side.

The genocide started unexpectedly. Tutsis who were exiled attempted to return home, and their efforts were quickly twisted by propaganda into widespread hatred, culminating in mass killings. One of the most disturbing aspects she shares is how neighbours, once peaceful and friendly, turned on the Tutsis they had lived alongside, including her and her family. Friends she played with turned on her, and the adults she grew up looking up to wanted her killed or to kill her. Immaculée was fortunate to be hidden by a village pastor in a tiny en-suite bathroom, along with seven other women, for 91 days. In that cramped space, she found God, prayed constantly, and discovered an inner strength that helped her survive. When she emerged from that bathroom and the genocide came to an end, she learnt about the horrific ways most of her family was killed. All of this would be enough to turn anyone bitter.

However, throughout the memoir, Immaculée refers to those committing violence as “killers” rather than labelling them as “Hutus,” a powerful choice that shows her refusal to generalise, hate, or discriminate against an entire group. She also notes that the Genocide affected both Hutus and Tutsis, and the only way forward is to help others and heal. She believes her faith was what carried her through the darkness, and today she continues to spread love, hope, and forgiveness.

Her memoir is heart-wrenching yet profoundly brave. She embodies resilience, strength, survival, and voice. It leaves readers asking: How does one move on after such a loss? How does one forgive? Yet Immaculée shows that both are possible — choosing love over hate every single time.

Recommendation

If you are interested in survivor narratives, social justice, or the intersection of trauma and spirituality, Left to Tell is a powerful and essential read. It stands as a profound reminder of the human spirit’s capacity to choose love, even when the world seems irredeemable.

About the Author

(Some of the below information is adapted from Immaculée’s official website. Please visit her site for more details on her and her other works.)

Immaculée Ilibagiza, born in Rwanda, was a university student when the 1994 genocide began. Her father sent her to hide at a pastor’s home, where she spent 91 days with seven other women in a tiny bathroom. During that time, she found strength in prayer, taught herself English using a Bible and a dictionary, and coped with immense grief.

After the genocide, having lost most of her family, she chose forgiveness over hatred. In 1998, Immaculée moved to the United States, worked with the United Nations, and published Left to Tell. The memoir became a New York Times bestseller, translated into 17 languages and sold millions of copies worldwide. She has since become a globally recognised speaker on faith, forgiveness, and resilience, receiving numerous awards for her humanitarian work.

If you enjoyed this review, you may also appreciate my review and reflection of Everyday Ubuntu: Living Better Together, the African Way by Nompumelelo Mungi Ngomane.


Book Review and Reflection of My Black Motherhood: Mental Health, Stigma, Racism and the System Sandra Igwe

Reading Time: 3 minutes

Published: 2022

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Book cover of “My Black Motherhood: Mental Health, Stigma, Racism and the System” by Sandra Igwe. The illustration features four Black women’s faces against a soft pink background, symbolizing strength, sisterhood, and the multifaceted experience of Black motherhood.
Cover of My Black Motherhood: Mental Health, Stigma, Racism and the System by Sandra Igwe — a powerful exploration of the realities Black mothers face in the UK.

Introduction

This book is not very long, so it is easy to get through—yet it took me a while to finish. I kept reading, pausing, and coming back to it. That’s because it is not an easy read. I am a Black mother living in England at the time of reading. Fortunately for me, I had my daughter outside England. I was lucky enough to have a well-paying job, so I was able to afford giving birth in a private hospital, where I received premium care. Moving to England, I quickly realised that motherhood here was very, very different.

In this book, Sandra takes us through the painful treatment of Black mothers in Britain, telling her own story as well as those of other Black mothers.

Book Summary

The book is divided into seven chapters where Sandra narrates her journey into motherhood, alongside the stories of other Black mothers she connected with through her motherhood group and other spaces. Her aim is to amplify not only her own voice but also the voices of other Black mothers.

Sandra begins the book by reflecting on the idea of motherhood in her life, looking at her mother’s experience and those of other women around her. There were familiar cultural expectations: having children at a certain age, for instance. However, she encountered several difficulties navigating the healthcare system as a Black woman in Britain.

She experienced child loss and traumatic births. She was rejected, ignored, and dismissed by the very people who were supposed to care for her. She also had a rude and unexpected introduction to children’s services. Sandra’s experiences mirrored those of many other Black mothers, women with whom she found community and a safe space to express themselves, offer mutual support, and share knowledge.

Throughout the book, Sandra addresses a number of themes through her own story and those of others: racism not only in healthcare but also in spaces where mothers gather, such as baby groups. She describes racist encounters with midwives and her struggles with mental health, especially the impact of postnatal depression.

A key theme that stands out—perhaps especially toward the end—is the importance of community. Sandra encourages women to lean into their communities if they have them, to accept help when it’s offered, and to ask for it when needed. She reminds us that raising children is not a one-person job. Tapping into our “villages” is important—but she also acknowledges that for some, those villages do not exist, or they are not “villaging.” Be that as it may, she urges mothers to actively seek out support because mothering is hard, and even harder when done alone.

Recommendations

For me, this was a difficult read, but I think every woman should read this book to understand the reality out there. Sandra mentions how some people were shocked when they heard her story and how the system had treated her. But unfortunately, as she shows throughout the book, her story is not unique. Many Black mothers go through similar experiences.

It is important for mothers, especially Black mothers, to know what to expect when expecting in Britain so they can be prepared for anything. And to know that they are not alone. Support is out there, even if it comes through an online community.

About the Author


Sandra Igwe is a maternal health advocate, writer, and founder of The Motherhood Group, a platform that supports Black mothers by amplifying their voices and creating safe, empowering spaces. She is also a public speaker and campaigner, working to raise awareness about the racial disparities in maternal healthcare. Sandra uses her lived experiences to challenge stigma, fight systemic injustice, and push for equity in the care and treatment of Black mothers in the UK.

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Book Review and Reflection of I Am Not Your Slave: A Memoir by Tupa Tjipombo with Chris Lockhart

Reading Time: 4 minutes

Book Details

Genre: Biography

Year: 2020

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Book cover of 'I Am Not Your Slave: A Memoir' by Tupa Tjipombo and Chris Lockhart featuring a black-and-white close-up portrait of a Black woman's face partially obscured by her open hand.
I Am Not Your Slave: A Memoir by Tupa Tjipombo and Chris Lockhart – a powerful story of resilience, identity, and reclaiming freedom from modern slavery.

Introduction

“After a while, a person can get used to almost anything.” — Chapter 9

Imagine living a joyful life among your people, surrounded by family and familiarity—only to be suddenly plunged into a world of captivity.

This is what happened to Tupa. She was violently uprooted from her home in Opuwo, Namibia, and trafficked into Angola. From there, she found herself trapped in a cycle of exploitation, moving through various countries across Africa and eventually to the Middle East.

Tupa’s story is one of survival. She endured witchcraft, sexual exploitation, and years of domestic servitude. Her memoir is both heartbreaking and necessary—an eye-opening account of modern slavery that demands to be read.

Book Summary

The book is divided into 13 chapters.

Chapter One begins with Tupa’s dramatic escape from her captors while being driven into Angola. She then trails off into memories of her childhood—growing up in a Himba village, living a traditional life with her family—until she was eventually ousted to Opuwo.

In Chapter Two, she narrates her life in Opuwo and introduces a key figure: Angel, a young Omuwambo man with business contacts in Angola. She reflects on how the Ovawambo people were generally distrusted by her tribe.

Chapters Three and Four delve into the devastation caused by a drought, which forced her family to consider selling their animals. The family travelled into Angola to do so, and Tupa was asked to accompany them. That’s when things began to unravel: missing boys, disappearing cows, and a deadlock over negotiating prices. Amid the chaos, Tupa was sold—her fate sealed through a ritual involving witchcraft.

I have read about trafficking and juju through research conducted in West Africa. However, it was quite sobering to read a similar experience told by a Namibian survivor of human trafficking. Tupa describes this ritual in tremendous, haunting detail—sending a shiver down one’s spine.

Chapters 5–8: Survival and Recapture

In Chapters 5, 6, and 7, Tupa narrates how she lived in a camp where other enslaved people were kept by military men. She had been removed from her original captors and placed under the control of a general who oversaw the camp. On the advice of another girl, who framed it as a means of survival, Tupa was married off to this general.

However, her temporary refuge did not last. Tupa was eventually recaptured by her original captors and placed on the road again, forced to travel long hours in squalid, dehumanising conditions. It becomes clear that someone specifically requested Tupa.

After a life-threatening boat ride across the ocean, she was brought to Dubai.

In Chapter 8, we learn that her trafficking was not random—she was part of a specific order. Someone had asked for a Himba girl or woman. Once in Dubai, Tupa became a domestic servant under the kafala system, a sponsorship system often criticised for enabling exploitation and modern-day slavery. Through this experience, she came to understand where she—and other African people—were ranked in the racial hierarchy of that society.

Chapters 9–11: The Jackal, Exploitation, and the Darkest Depths


Chapter 9 details Tupa’s life as a domestic servant in Dubai. By now, she has become deeply aware of the many forms of trafficking, including organ harvesting.

In Chapters 10 and 11, Tupa’s duties grow heavier and more disturbing. She finally meets “The Jackal,” the man who “stretched his hand across Africa” and snatched her up—the man who ordered a Himba girl… and received his delivery.

Tupa is subjected to debilitating sexual exploitation. She is treated like a rag doll for sex, especially reserved for The Jackal. Her suffering doesn’t end there — she is also forced to become part of a “girls on show” setup, where women are paraded for the entertainment of international men, including those working in institutions as high as the United Nations.

And yet — since this is Tupa’s retelling — we know she somehow escaped. But how?

With the wealth and influence of those who held her captive, the vast distance between Dubai and her home in Opuwo, Namibia, and the fact that she was left with absolutely nothing…

How did Tupa manage to escape and return home?

Grab your copy to find out. Chapters 12 and 13 give these reflections as well as her journey towards healing.

Recommendation

This book is a difficult read — even for me, someone who has extensively researched human trafficking. It is not for everyone and can be deeply traumatising.

If you are squeamish, some parts of the book will be especially hard to get through. Chapter 4, in particular, is incredibly difficult to digest.

That said, it is an important and necessary read. Tupa’s story forces us to confront the brutal realities that survivors of human trafficking live through—stories that are too often silenced or ignored.

It was also a pleasure to review this book as I grow my Namibian collection, adding to The Purple Violet of Oshaantu by Neshani Andreas.

Book Review and Reflection of Cack-Handed: A Memoir by Gina Yashere

Reading Time: 4 minutes

Genre: Autobiography
First Published: 2021
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Book cover of Cack-Handed: A Memoir by British Nigerian comedian Gina Yashere.
Book cover of Cack-Handed: A Memoir by British Nigerian comedian Gina Yashere. A bold and humorous memoir about identity, family, comedy, and resilience.

Book Review and Reflection

Introduction

I first came across Gina Yashere through her role in Bob Hearts Abishola, where she plays Kemi, Abishola’s hilarious best friend. I instantly fell in love with her character. Later, I discovered she was also an incredible stand-up comedian, so I watched a few of her shows. When I found out she had written a memoir, I knew I had to read it—I was in for a treat! And Cack-Handed: A Memoir did not disappoint. Gina delivers a raw, honest, and, of course, funny account of her life.

Book Summary

Cack-Handed is structured into 21 chapters, each titled after a traditional Nigerian proverb. African proverbs are often reflected in African-authored books like I Do Not Come To You By Chance by Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani and many others. The first chapter was a delightful surprise. Gina opens with a brief but deeply appreciated historical account of the Kingdom of Benin, where her roots lie. She even introduces a fascinating mystery—whether or not she is the reincarnation of her maternal grandmother.

She then delves into key historical moments in Britain, particularly those she experienced firsthand, such as the phenomenon of “farming.” She recounts growing up in London in the 1970s and 1980s in Tower Hamlets, one of the most impoverished boroughs. Learning that she lived in Tower Hamlets made me smile—I, too, lived there for a year while pursuing my master’s in human rights at Queen Mary University of London in 2017 and 2018.

Gina’s reflections on her childhood, particularly her relationship with her strict but loving mother, are candid and heartwarming. I giggled at the clever ways she worked around her mother’s restrictions. She also details the hardships of living with a terrible stepfather—whom she aptly calls “step bastard”—and the relentless bullying she endured for being African and for her name that sounded like female genitalia.

Her career journey was particularly fascinating. From working as an engineer to discovering a passion for stand-up comedy, Gina’s pivot was bold and inspiring. She also openly discusses her sexuality, reflecting on how little she knew about it growing up. Her experiences in Nigeria—facing rejection due to her sexuality—were both surprising and, unfortunately, unsurprising.

Reading about Gina’s struggles with the BBC and the broader industry was incredibly eye-opening. Given her challenges, I’m thrilled she achieved her dream of moving to the United States. I follow Gina on Instagram and I know she is making the most of her time in the USA.

I also found it interesting that she gained success as a comedian in England before I even knew her from Bob Hearts Abishola. Her brother’s name, Dele, was a fun coincidence, just like Abishola’s son on the show. But in hindsight, it’s not surprising that I didn’t know her earlier—growing up in Namibia, I was far more exposed to American media than British entertainment. I became more interested in Britain and its people after moving to Kingston Upon Hull in 2020.

Gina ends the book by asking if we want to hear more about what happened next. My answer? Yes, please! I can’t wait to read the next chapter of her life.

What I loved

  • The brief but well-researched historical insights sprinkled throughout the book.
  • Her generous use of Nigerian proverbs, many of which she credits to her mother, was especially heartwarming.
  • The raw honesty in her storytelling, particularly in how she speaks about her mother, her “step bastard,” and her journey.
  • Her unwavering pride in her identity as an African Nigerian woman. Though born in England, she has always appreciated and continues to embrace her roots.

Favourite Proverbs from the Book

  • “If you are eating with the devil, you must use a long spoon.”
  • “The same sun that melts wax also hardens clay.”
  • “It is when there is a stampede that the person with big buttocks knows that he carries a load.”

These sayings, rooted in Yoruba culture, add humour and resilience to Gina’s storytelling.

Final Thoughts – Would I Recommend It?

Absolutely. If you enjoy funny and inspiring memoirs, Cack-Handed will make you laugh, cry, and reflect. It’s perfect for anyone interested in memoirs by Black women, women in comedy, or stories of resilience and self-discovery.

Audiobook Note

I listened to the audiobook of Cack-Handed narrated by Gina herself. Hearing her tell her own story made it even more powerful. Her delivery, rhythm, and tone add emotion and punch to the already compelling narrative.

About the Author

Gina Yashere is a trailblazing British Nigerian comedian, writer, and actress. Known for her work on The Lenny Henry Show, The Tonight Show with Jay Leno, and Bob Hearts Abishola, she has broken barriers across the comedy and TV landscape. Gina co-created and co-produces Bob Hearts Abishola, where she plays Kemi, a fan-favourite character. She also holds the distinction of being the first British comic on Def Comedy Jam.

Her story reflects her dedication to diversity in entertainment and her refusal to be boxed in. Learn more at ginayashere.com.

Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood by Itunu Victor-Saleh

Reading Time: 3 minutes

Book Details

Author: Itunu Victor-Saleh
Available Formats: Kindle (included with Kindle Unlimited), Paperback
Year of Publication: 2023
Genre: Autobiography/Self-Help
Notable Quote: “I can still remember a nurse giving my fiancé and me a bombastic side eye when we visited a health clinic for family planning. Why?” (Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood, p. 8 Kindle Edition)

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Book Review


Introduction: Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood

Africans, by nature, are genuinely hopeful people. I love that about us because we exhibit Black Joy in profound ways! I felt a mixture of emotions while reading Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood—happiness, sorrow, admiration, and deep empathy. Itunu Victor-Saleh’s journey is marked by numerous obstacles, yet filled with unwavering faith and hope, which makes this book truly inspiring.

I have known Itunu and her husband through church, where I always admired their beautifully coordinated African outfits. Their presence as a young, loving African couple was heartwarming. My admiration grew further when I got to know Itunu personally through a social group for moms and their children, where we would gather to eat, play, and pray together. I remember asking her once if she had any children, not realising the immense journey she was on.


Summary of Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood

In this semi-autobiographical work, Itunu Victor-Saleh shares her deeply personal and emotional journey to motherhood. She narrates her struggles with conception, including the heartbreak of an ectopic pregnancy that led to the loss of her first pregnancy and one of her fallopian tubes.

Despite the emotional and physical pain, she continued to hold onto hope, even as she faced further medical challenges that complicated her path to motherhood. Through her story, she highlights how faith wavered during moments of despair but ultimately grew stronger with each trial. Her resilience shines through in her unwavering belief in God’s timing, even when it seemed uncertain.

The book takes readers through the many highs and lows of her experience—medical diagnoses, hospital visits, and emotional setbacks—all while she clung to faith. At several points, I found myself moved to tears, rooting for her. Will she carry this pregnancy to term and welcome her first child into the world? To find out, you’ll have to pick up Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood.


What I Loved About Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood

  • A Beautiful Love Story
    Anyone who knows me knows that I am a sucker for love, and I absolutely loved that this book began with Itunu and her husband’s love story. Their journey together reaffirmed the saying: “When you know, you know.”
  • Inspirational Quotes and Bible Verses
    The book is filled with meaningful quotations, particularly from the Bible. One verse that stood out to me was:
    “If you faint in the day of adversity, your strength is small.” (Proverbs 24:10, KJV).
    I had never come across this verse before, but I am grateful to have discovered it through this book—it is now one of my favorites.
  • Honest and Raw Reflections
    I appreciated the vulnerability Itunu displayed in recounting her struggles. Her initial battle with faith after her ectopic pregnancy was deeply moving. The way she candidly shared her struggles in waiting for God’s timing and how she eventually reclaimed her faith made this book an incredibly powerful read.

What I Wanted More Of

  • Clarifications on Medical Terminology
    While the book does a fantastic job of sharing Itunu’s journey, I would have appreciated short explanations of some medical terms, similar to how she described gestational diabetes. Terms like human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG) levels (p. 13) and pseudocyesis (p. 15) could have been briefly explained for readers unfamiliar with medical jargon.

Recommendation: Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood

I highly recommend Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood to all readers, but especially to women struggling with conception. This book may offer comfort, inspiration, and hope. It is a short yet deeply impactful read, divided into 10 accessible sections. It is easy to read, affordable, and, most importantly, filled with faith, resilience, and the power of hope.


Final Thoughts

Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood is an inspiring read that showcases the power of faith in the face of adversity. Whether you are on a similar journey or simply want to understand and empathise with those who struggle with conception, this book will touch your heart.

If you’re looking for a heartfelt and faith-filled story, Hope Amidst Tears – My Journey to Motherhood is a must-read!

Hope Amidst Tears: My Journey to Motherhood book cover by Itunu Victor-Saleh – A powerful memoir about a high-risk pregnancy, resilience, and hope.
Review of Hope Amidst Tears: My Journey to Motherhood by Itunu Victor-Saleh – A deeply personal story about surviving a high-risk pregnancy and the emotional journey to motherhood.